How Do You Argue? The Conflict Resolution Inventory (CRSI)


Conflict Resolution Inventory (CRSI)

Kurdek1 created the Conflict Resolution Style Inventory (CRSI) survey to evaluate four distinct personal conflict resolution styles. The CRSI survey consists of 16 questions that help you gauge the frequency with which you use each style in disagreements. Furthermore, you can use the CRSI to understand your partner's approaches to resolving conflicts as well. The CRSI has also been tested with various types of relationships, including LGBTQ+.

The underlying idea behind the CRSI is that the stability of a relationship is influenced by how each partner behaves during conflicts. The inventory encompasses four styles:

  • positive problem-solving (like compromise and negotiation)
  • conflict engagement (characterized by personal attacks and losing control)
  • withdrawal (avoiding discussions or ignoring the other partner)
  • compliance (yielding to the other's demands without consideration of oneself)

1Kurdek, L. A. (1994). Conflict resolution styles in gay, lesbian, heterosexual nonparent, and heterosexual parent couples. Journal of Marriage and the Family, 56, 705-722.


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Conflict Resolution Style Inventory Questions


Answer the questions below based on how you see yourself acting during conflict. Once you have completed the survey and seen your results, you can also try answering the questions based on how you see your partner acting in conflict. Make sure and clear the results between each attempt.

1. Launching personal attacks.
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2. Focusing on the problem at hand.
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3. Remaining silent for long periods of time.
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4. Not being willing to stick up for myself.
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5. Exploding and getting out of control.
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6. Sitting down and discussing differences constructively.
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7. Reaching a limit, 'shutting down,' and refusing to talk any further.
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8. Being too compliant.
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9. Getting carried away and saying things that aren't meant.
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10. Finding alternatives that are acceptable to each of us.
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11. Tuning the other person out.
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12. Not defending my position.
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13. Throwing insults and digs.
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14. Negotiating and compromising.
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15. Withdrawing, acting distant and not interested.
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16. Giving in with little attempt to present my side of the issue.
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Disclaimer

This survey and the information provided here are intended for informational purposes only. They are not a substitute for professional help. This survey can offer insights into your relationship, but should not be used as a standalone tool to diagnose or treat relationship issues. If you are experiencing relationship difficulties, you can schedule a free consultation or consult with another qualified couple’s counselor for support.

  



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